The following is a short excerpt from the samely-named chapter of The Secret Of Love.

·   All want to love eternally and they also eternally want to gain the energy for this eternal love of theirs. And where this energy uses to be gained from, we already knows quite well. From love and unlove.

·   Behind every tragedy there is the promise of love in the same way as the promise of a new day is in the ending night.

·   Life is worth living for a man only if the experience of some love waits for him. If not, he has no reason to live any further.

·   If we counted up all the loves including those, which are deviant, into one only love, it would be love that would love every piece of human body and human soul.

·   In the same way like a man that so to say "rests on his laurels", also love becomes colder and loses to the people who must not overcome any obstacles for it's keeping.

·   Love has the price for a man only in the moment when it is experiencing or when he is looking forward to experience it. If love passed away, there are but beautiful memories and pain left.

·   I have heard a sad melody, the tones of which played about the real price of love that is often realized only after it is too late; that after the loss we have to vanishingly long for it's re-obtaining and the most just when it is nonreturnably away.
    Old proverb says: ?What we have lost has a doubled price in our eyes.? And another: ?Only when we lost some close being we realize the real price that he or she really had for us.? And because we do not know the future and we do not know what expects us and our close ones, so we also do not know the hour of their death neither the moment when we see each other for the last time. From this reason let us every time treat one another well. Therefore act like if you saw whom you love in that day for the last time in your life.
    It is necessary to add that if you would really act that way, you would have a better relationship with your close ones than how it is supposed to be, so this imagination about ideal ? always loving and good behavior towards them ? is more theory than reality.

·   Mystical weddings and divorces exist and do not exist at the same time. Everything is and is not kept at a half-way to the wedding and divorce for ever. Mystical weddings ? a big merger ? is and is not only theoretic goal of our endeavor.

·   By means of sex, lovers go and fetch a missing piece of themselves. The part of them that finds itself in the inside of somebody else whom it is necessary to penetrate into, join with him, to give him a superfluous piece of oneself and other, missing piece, take from him.

·   Both genders, male and female, express one-sideness. The highest understanding to everything can only be reached through both-genderness because it includes the feeling and perceiving of both genderal principles at once.

·   By what woman deserves love of a man? By her beauty? No. For she did not give her beauty to herself. The Creator gave it to her. Woman should deserve love of man by the intensity of her love for him, not only by how she looks physically. Important is what the woman feels and experiences inside. And by what man deserves love of a woman? By his beauty? No, since he did not give his beauty to himself. The Creator gave it to him. He should deserve the love of a woman by the intensity of his love for her, not only by how he looks physically. Important is what the man feels and experiences inside. Despite all that we can rightfully claim that the both deserve love not only by how much they love or to what extent they are physically beautiful. Above all, they deserve their mutual love by their spiritual affinity. Only then by how much they love each other or how much they are beautiful.

·   A murderer is a person immediating for his victim a passage from this terrible world into a better world, full of God's love.

·   Almost every man searches the God (the Spirit of Love) and partially finds him in his wife. And who took away his wife from him, it is as if he took away the Lord God from him.

·   Women are the biggest bastards where men will turn out to be merciful and helping creatures; men are the biggest bastards where women will turn out to be loving nurturers and rescuers.

·   The Spirit of Love: "You did that right. You have chosen the one that I have chosen for you."

·   Without women? No, rather a grave. And with them? No too, it is a hell.

·   Man in fact does not love only whom he loves. For he at the same time loves the spirits who govern his love and who experience it with him (man will fall in love with a woman behind which the spirit of female love will stand and he subconsciously wants to join the spirit of female love through that woman; woman will fall in love with a man behind which the spirit of male love will stand and she subconsciously wants to join the spirit of male love through that man).

·   Behind whom the spirit of love will stand, him we will fall in love with. Sometimes he will stand behind our friend, other time behind our domestic pet or behind beautiful landscape. In reality, we do not search those that we love but we search the Spirit of Love through them. And we find his part in everybody that we are in love with.

·   We were not separated in vain. We must learn to live one without the other.

·   Excessive self-love is a serious crime. Who loves himself too much, he absorbs the good and the evil will slip down over him and will fall upon the other.

·   Average man and average woman may expect from each other roughly the following: some passion and a little bit of a repugnance, some happiness and a little bit of a bad luck, and partial satisfaction in sexual and partners life.

·   As the hierarchy of drives itself suggests it, in some extreme situations the drive or self-preservation overpowers the sexual drive. Perhaps in the catastrophes like Titanic that demonstrates the depth of inter-human (also loverly) relationships:
    Until the ship calmly swims along the sea and everything looks like a nice trip, its all ?Please, honorable lady, after you!? But as soon as the ship goes to the bottom of the sea, honorable lady can freely be stepped on to enable the respective man ? a gentleman in normal circumstances, but a bestial murderer in the extreme ones ? to be the first who will reach the lifeboat or lifejacket.
    Similarly it is about the love of one soul for the other, of one man for the other:
    If its not that bad, people like and help each other. But when its worst, they will forsake each other if not mercilessly sacrifice!

·   Attraction of intime parts of human body, concretely sexual organs and butt kissing and licking expresses that respective man loves his partner entirely with everything. It also expresses that he loves him or her on the most delicate, most vulnerable, most beautiful and at the same time most repellent places. This erotic attraction understands and accepts all the partner's internal merits and defects and loves him or her together with them all.

·   Attraction and repulsiveness of beauty and love alternate. When a man looks down at the butt of a pretty woman, it seems to him to be beautiful. When he begins to fondle it, it is nice. But when he begins to lick the butt he may also perceive it's loathsome smell, however only if the woman does not have her butt expecially clean (if she does, then it can be very pleasant for both of them) and the nice feelings of that man can change into repugnance. But when the man will step aside and will take a look at her but from a little larger distance again, he will again perceive it's attractive shape. Not in vain old proverb says that: ?Do not look at the pretty things too closely, it might disturb their entire beauty.?

·   Maternal love is the only true human love. Other loves give and want to take, but maternal love more or less only gives. It loves her children even if they did not love it. Therefore maternal love is the most true out of all human loves.

·   The pain of sexual organs is the compensation and opposite of sexual delights and pleasures that we experienced by means of these organs.

·   There is no man that could recognize the entire love because it is recognized and understood only by those who are taking care of it all through the ages. With them you are allowed to talk about love much more than with any living human.

                

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