Every man desires for love and experiences a big pain when he loses it. A lot of people become sardonic after they lost their love and the consequences of their disappointment have a life-long reverberation.
    Although the pain of lost love is very cruel, it is not right to harden for the rest of life because of the lost love and never love another person again. Just through this impenitence many people solve their disappointment. If they separate, they keep away from another relationships for the rest of their life.
    The sad fact is that the people stopped going out with love as such and suppressed in them any desire for it, they loose their ideals and become emotionally cold. But a man who has an expressive need for love and be loved, he damages his state of health by this need's suppression and often also harms his soul at the end.
    If a man longing for someone to experience a deep love with has not got any partner he can transform his need of love. For loved can be also God, Nature, friends and similarly. The lack of human love can partially be replaced with the purchase of an animal whereas the most favorite animal is a dog. If we brought it up well, we can experience with it a lot of nice moments accompanied by mutual affection, trust and love. Although the dog is not able to replace a human fully, but as it is said something is better than nothing.
    But it is needed to know that the dog is not for a human the so-much missing spark of erotic tension and attraction even though it brings to it's owner certainty and friendship. Doggy and human soul together, it is not the biggest degree of touch between two souls. Human male soul requires a merger with human female soul and vice versa. The biggest form of human love can only be fully experienced with human soul of opposite gender if we do not consider love for God, which is more spiritual. It cannot be reached with animal soul.
    Despite this, a partial and temporary solution to the separation with beloved partner is to increase the love for God, friends and Nature. It is suitable to go to Nature, to devote to hobbies that will spend much of your time and pray to God to find a new loving partner. And also actively try to find him. As it is said: „The Sun does not shine for one flower only.“ There is a lot of beautiful people on the world and it will only do to discover the beauty of theirs. And another, new love can start!
    If the reason for the pain of the lost love is the partner's death, it is suitable to turn to God and ask him to enable the meeting with the dead partner in the next lives of your souls. Since as we mystics know, love never dies. And when it leaves us, then only for some time to return back to us by circuitous way again, either sooner or later.

    Let us trust the God and love. Who searchs love he will find it someday. And when he will not find it, love will find him itself.

                

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